A single woman who lives alone in her home is, statistically speaking, more likely to be watched and targeted than a woman who lives with a roommate or a family member. She is also less likely to be promptly reported missing to authorities. In this case, prevention is paramount. A few actions to keep you safe at home:
Use a front door intercom. Opening the door to a stranger determined to gain entrance is essentially the same as inviting him in. Once the door is ajar, he can try to strongarm right past you. Keep an intercom, preferably with video, so that you can ascertain who is on your front porch without touching the door.
Get a panic button. These come with or without GPS, and can be used in any room of your home, or kept on your person. That way help is only a click away.
Schedule service calls strategically. Make sure that when strangers must come in to work on your home, there is a trusted neighbor or friend close enough to hear you shout.
Don’t date at home. If you wish to try a new relationship with someone you don’t know, never let them pick you up at your address on the first date. Find public places to meet and get to know one another, and drive yourself home. Keep this up until you are sure your new partner can be trusted.
Lastly, keep personal protection items accessible, especially in your bedroom and near the front door. If you have pepper spray or a firearm, know how to use it, and keep it in good order. If possible, take a self defense or martial arts course. It will make you feel empowered, and it could save your life